For homeless children at Sacramento’s Mustard Seed School,
martial arts practice is more than mere exercise. Their self-defense
lessons are also aimed at building self-esteem and protecting
them from the dangers of life on the street.
Bright bunches of balloons outside signal to me that this
is the Kovars Karate School I’m looking for. As I enter, I’m
greeted with the playground sounds of about a dozen kids chattering
and laughing as they race and skip around the wide open space
of the dojo. They are doing cart-wheels in sock feet, making
funny faces toward the mirrors along one wall. They are smiling,
excited, and, no doubt, ready for the pizza party that’s
scheduled to follow their belt ceremony. You could watch these
kids for hours and never know that they are homeless, never know
that some of them maybe slept in cars last night, or walked through
dangerous neighborhoods in the darkest, coldest hours of the
night. You might never know the fears they’ve faced or
the very grown-up worries they’ve had to carry on their
narrow young shoulders. To know all that, you would really have
to get to know them. You would have to have been there, day in
and day out, asking the right questions and listening, really
listening, when they shared pieces of their stories. You would
have to be their teacher, or a parent, a psychologist, or a coach,
a playmate, a friend. You would have to be someone like Sophia
Powers, who, at one time or another, has been all those things
to these kids who are gathered here today from the Mustard Seed
School, Sacramento’s School for homeless children. The
kids are here to celebrate their progress (some are receiving
their gold belt today, next up from white, while others are getting “tips” on
their belts, signifying they are one step closer). But the teachers
and parents gathered here to support them are also celebrating
the first anniversary of a very special partnership between the
school and Kovars Martial Arts Academy, a program that started
with Ms. Powers’ vision.
“I was hearing and reading all these statistics about
homeless kids…how eight out of ten are physically assaulted
before they reach their teens.” Powers asked herself, “If
they can’t go to Martial Arts, why can’t we bring
it to them?” So, she wrote a proposal to Dave Kovars, Founder
and Chief Training Officer of the Kovars/Satori Academy of Martial
Arts, who agreed to support the program, allowing Mustard Seed
students to learn the Kovars self-defense curriculum at no cost
to them or the school. The instructors, who volunteer their time,
have made the program a success.
Dave Kovar is at the event and leads the kids in reviewing,
among other things, The Principles of Black Belt: “modesty,
courtesy, integrity, perseverance, courage and indomitable spirit.” It’s
a tall order for even the most privileged and disciplined of
adults, let alone for disadvantaged kids who don’t always
know where their next meal is coming from or where they’ll
spend the night. “It’s hard for people to really
fathom what these kids go through,” says Ms. Powers, yet
she is firm in her belief that the adversity her students face
is all the more reason to lift their expectations higher.
After the kids have successfully demonstrated their knowledge
of martial arts basics, they participate in a board-breaking
exercise. Teachers demonstrate the proper technique and describe
how, mentally, the kids will focus (“not so much on the
board, but beyond it”) in order to achieve a clean break.
Each of the kids follows instructions exactly, and as board after
board breaks in two, triumphant smiles start to fill the room.
One of the girls, Samantha, seems awed by what she’s just
done. She keeps staring at the two pieces of wood held tightly
in her hands, and she whispers to herself again and again, “I
broke that board…” Even when the kids get gift bags,
she does not stop gazing at her hands, and she does not let go
of those boards—tangible proof that she is capable of doing
more than she thought she could. You can see, in her expression,
how the fact of her success gradually sinks in, until, all smiles,
she declares, “I want to break another board!” It’s
Samantha’s smile that comes back to me later, asSophia
tells me what teaching means to her: “There isn’t
a greater gift you can give your students than to show them all
that they can be.”
To help these kids develop their full potential,
the Satori Academy is introducing a scholarship program, which
will allow
kids to continue their martial arts training once they leave
the Mustard Seed School. Families who manage to get into housing
and re-enroll their children in public schools still face a precarious
financial situation, and the kids sometimes face a difficult
adjustment. This program will allow the children to further their
training, maintain that important relationship with a teacher,
and continue to surprise themselves with all that they can do.
To learn more about Sacramento’s Mustard Seed School,
and how you can make a difference in the lives of its students,
call
Gail at 916-446-0874 or visit sacramentoloavesandfishes.org/mustardseed.html.
Go to SacramentoParent.com, to read “Positive Impact,” a
companion piece to this article, available only online, or look
up “Sowing the Seeds of Hope,” our February story
on Sacramento’s Mustard Seed School.
For more information about the Kovars/Satori Martial Arts Academy,
visit Kovars.com or SatoriAcademy.com.