It’s hard to believe, but your baby is going to be one year old! The time has flown by, and you are about to start the yearly ritual of “the birthday party.” If you haven’t yet been bitten by the birthday party bug—beware. As parents we tend to get caught up in the “bigger is better” mode, especially when it comes to birthdays. A party for a child does not have to be “over-the-top” to be memorable and fun.
For that first birthday, keep in mind that the party is really for the adults. Your little one has no idea what all the fuss is about, and will not remember it when they write their memoirs 50 years from now. By all means have a party, but keep it simple.
Invite Grandma and Grandpa, and your most special friends and relatives. Keep it to a manageable number of guests for you and your space. Remember that you will be caring for your child at the same time. If you invite other babies or toddlers, 1 to 3 guests is plenty. Parents of little guests should always be included, so they can be available for their child, and you, if necessary. The party should last 1 to 1½ hours; this is about the most a one-year-old can handle without getting over-stimulated and cranky. Be sure to schedule around nap times. Late morning allows for a morning nap or late afternoon lets kids party after their afternoon nap.
You don’t need to make elaborate plans—let the kids just play. Be sure to baby-proof your party area.
* Blow bubbles.
* A wading pool (with lots of supervision) is great fun for warm weather.
* Beach balls are inexpensive and fun for toddlers. You can buy one for each child who will attend the party.
* Play some music (your favorite kid tunes), and let the kids dance around. Moms and Dads can join in the fun.
* Sing songs. Actions songs like “Wheels on the Bus,” “The Itsy-Bitsy Spider” or “If You’re Happy and You Know It” are favorites with the toddler set.
* Tape a piece of butcher paper over the top of a low table and provide the kids with crayons for drawing.

Keep in mind that one-year-olds will not sit still to be entertained, really don’t want someone to paint their face and can be deathly frightened of clowns or other characters that come dressed up. And a bounce house can be frustrating to toddlers who are still trying to master the art of walking. Save those great things for another year.

Most importantly, be flexible! Tears, spills and unpredictable behavior are all part of a first birthday party. Take lots of pictures of your child’s cake-covered face, and enjoy.

Remember

“ A child’s party does not have to be over-the-top to be memorable and fun.”

“Keep in mind that first birthday parties are really for the adults...”

“… Your little one will not remember it when he writes his memoirs 50 years from now.”