By Lisa M. Thibodeau

Missy Ballance is the kind of girl everyone wants
as her friend. There’s never a dull moment chatting with her, she loves
Mexican food and knows how to enjoy a Krispy Kreme, and she doesn’t
take herself too seriously. As a hands-on mom, she shows a genuine
tenderness for her two small daughters. As an artist and a member
of the Sacramento Craft Mafia, she shows her mad skills on the
sewing machine, rocks a distinctive DIY style and demonstrates
a dangerous level of business savvy! Missy is the owner of Mohair
Circus and Snap Happy Graphics. She is also one of the Sacramento
Craft Mafia’s best hit women.
A Brief History of the Mafia
Banding together in November 2006, the Sacramento Craft Mafia
organized so that local artists could support each other as they
launched and grew their crafting businesses. The first Craft Mafia
was organized in Austin, Texas in 2003 by a few creative business
women devoted to the DIY ethos and attitude. At last count, there
were 45 groups popping up in cities across the country. The Sacramento
chapter is a diverse bunch of lady artists who knit, crochet, sew
and alter with enough daring and moxie to impress the Godfather
himself.
The Mafia ladies are fiercely loyal to one another (as famiglia
should be), sharing information, encouraging new family-members
and celebrating each other’s successes as they spread their
crafty goodness to the masses. Their website professes a code of
peace and love—stabbing in the back with knitting needles
is not condoned.
The “sisterhood” meets once a month in person to network.
They also host craft shows and reach out to the local crafting
community by offering classes and tutorials. Serious about their
businesses and seeking to be profitable, the Mafia’s members
promote themselves through their websites and at craft shows, selling
their wares on Etsy.com, and chronicling their trials and triumphs
in their blogs.
The fun of it aside, blogging is one very important way these
artists promote themselves. Missy explains, “It’s an
important business tool, a way to connect with the global crafting
community and share ideas, and it gives you a view of how other
artists work.”
Tamie Snow, fellow mafiosa, mom and blogger (Roxycraft.wordpress.com),
agrees: “I have definitely seen my business increase since
I started blogging.” She adds that she appreciates the serendipitous
nature of how her customers sometimes discover her crafts through
her blog. “It’s awesome!”
Finding Ballance
Missy Ballance works her magic in a craft room painted the girliest
shade of pink, where her affinity for vintage fabrics and whimsical
creatures is apparent in the very cool stuff she creates. Her sweet
mohair bears, fairytale bunnies and adorable tooth fairy pillows
tell the story of a crafter who has not forgotten the magic of
childhood. But beyond her own work, Missy also serves as the group’s
Treasurer, has founded an artists’ co-op site (GlitterandGrunge.com),
dabbles in graphic arts (she is self-taught), designs rubber stamps,
sells on Etsy.com and regularly whips up blog entries with generous
helpings of exclamation points and sideways smiley faces. (You
can get to her blog, on her “Crafty Carnival” site,
through MohairCircus.com.) So, how does she manage to balance all
this with being a full-time mom to daughters Gracie, 6, and Daisy,
3? Missy laughs, “People always ask me, ‘when do you
sleep?’” To which she replies, “Oh, I sleep all
the time, but I don’t clean my house.”
Missy says that balancing motherhood and her work takes a lot
of patience and resourcefulness. Luckily, she is plenty resourceful,
and her sense of humor is as quick and light as her whipstitch. “Many
days I work when [the girls] are napping, or in school, or I give
them buttons to glue on to paper to keep them busy in the craft
room.” She adds with a smile, “There is definitely
glue on my carpet.” Like many of the group’s crafty
moms, Missy finds her time crafting cathartic, a way to express
her creative side which was nurtured in her by her own mom. She
hopes she is instilling in her own daughters a love of creating
things and an appreciation for the homemade.
Mohair bears are Missy’s specialty and are somewhat of a
niche market. A bit pricey, mohair is unique and not commonly used
by other crafters, but the decidedly retro fabric, combined with
anime-inspired proportions and styling, give Missy’s bears
a distinctive, one-of-a-kind look. “My look is very hip,
not your traditional teddy bear,” Missy explains. Some of
Missy’s bears sport tiny tiaras, or little dresses or scarves,
and each one is heirloom quality and utterly charming.
Many crafters in the group are influenced by the anime genre
(think Hello Kitty proportions), as evidenced in the big eyes
and ginormous
round heads of many of their craft creatures. Many of the Mafia’s
crafters also share Missy’s love of retro, yet their wares
are all decidedly non-traditional (there is not a doily in sight),
and they enjoy pushing the envelope with styles that are riotous—even
subversive. The tag line heading Tamie Snow’s website, Roxycraft,
says it all… “patterns that don’t suck.”
At SacramentoCraftMafia.com you can nab everything from a tie-dyed
onesie, complete with skull and crossbones, to a naughty notebook
done up with vintage Fredericks of Hollywood catalog pages. Deconstructed
and recycled fashions abound, as do original handmade accessories
(including Dia De Los Muertos-inspired necklaces and earrings),
but you’ll also find wooden toys and whimsical stuffed
animals, sweet Tees and beautiful blankies.
Famiglia First
Surprisingly, the urge to create wasn’t always a part of
Missy’s life. It wasn’t until after college and working,
when she was home with her kids, that she began to dabble in crafts
again. “I think it’s the period of your life when you
have some time to think and that whole nesting-phase thing kicks
in.”
Fellow mafia mama Tamie Snow, owner of Roxycraft, agrees, “I
was never crafty until I was about ready to give birth to my son,
then all of a sudden I decided to make him a mobile.” The
mobile, with its fanciful crocheted creatures, turned out so cute
that she decided to make more and try to sell them. Not long after,
an article in a magazine launched her business selling crocheted
doll and animal patterns. “It just took off,” Tamie
says. Now she balances an energetic toddler (Jackson is 2) with
her work. “I do it when he sleeps, stay up late, but I have
found a rhythm—still, my son always comes first.”
Tamie encourages moms who want to start a business to begin
a blog. “It’s a window to your work,” she explains.
She also stresses the importance of doing shows, saying it is important
to “keep your face out there.” But having a website,
she thinks, is the most important piece because it “gives
you legitimacy.” Having your own book can’t hurt either.
Tamie is now eagerly awaiting the arrival of her first book, Tiny
Yarn Animals: Amigurumi Friends to Make and Enjoy. It hits book
stores this August, but you can already check out some of the patterns
and see her super-cute crocheted creatures on her website: Roxycraft.com.
What’s next for these ambitious moms? Missy can’t
say exactly what her next goals might be. “My husband keeps
asking me if I have ‘made it.’” She has been
on HGTV, designed products for other companies, and has sold a
lot of her work. “Of course, I would love to make a lot of
money,” Missy says, “but for right now this is good
because I can be home with my daughters, and they need me.” Missy
and the rest of the Mafia are having fun doing what they love and
packing heat—in hot glue gun form, of course!
DO Try This At Home:
Both Missy and Tamie have shared tutorials with us this month!
Learn how to make adorable bunnies, just in time for spring! Click
on In This Issue and look for Missy's tutorial under our new column, "Crafty
Mama."
Or crochet your own super-cute Gabu Creature. Just click on In
This Issue and look under Online Extras for Tamie's tutorial.
Top of the Hit List: Fibertastic!
Some SCM members will be out in full-force at this fiberarts showcase
and sale event, happening Saturday, March 8 next door to the Coffee
Garden (2904 Franklin Blvd. in Sacramento). 3pm – on. There
will be an art show, spinning wheel demonstration, fashion show,
and plenty of offers you can’t refuse.