By Shelly Bokman Each child comes into potty-training readiness at their own pace. How do you know if your child is ready to ditch the nappies and rock the "big kid" underwear? Keep track of As, Bs and Cs to find out what it means for your child. 2. My toddler remains dry for at least 2 hours at a time during the day: 3. My child seems uncomfortable with wet or soiled diapers: 4. My child has asked to wear underwear: 5. My child can follow simple directions: 6. My child can take his pants off and put them on: 7. My child is dry after naptime: 8. My toddler seems interested in the toilet and doing lots of things like “a big kid”: 9. I think that it's the right time to begin potty training: 10. I have the time to dedicate to toilet training and there are no big changes happening in our lives right now—like the arrival of a new sibling, moving, or changing child care arrangements: QUIZ RESULTS: Most answers are b: Not yet—but you are getting close! Most answers are c: Your toddler is so ready for toilet training! Are you between two scores?
Take this quiz, and find out if your little one
is ready to say “bye-bye” to diapers.
1. My child has predictable bowel movements:
a. Never
b. Sometimes
c. Usually
a. No, my toddler needs changing more often
b. Sometimes
c. Yes, always
a. No
b. Sometimes
c. Yes
a. No, shows no interest
b. Asked once but not persistently
c. Repeatedly asks
a. No, doesn't seem to understand or doesn't follow directions
b. Will do it with encouragement
c. Understands me and does it
a. No
b. With help he can
c. Yes
a. No
b. Sometimes
c. Yes, consistently
a. Never
b. Sometimes
c. All the time!
a. No
b. I'm undecided
c. Yes
a. Actually, our family is in transition
b. Sometimes, but there are some distractions for our family right now
c. Yes, I can focus on my child right now
Most answers are a: Wait.
Your little one doesn't seem to be ready yet. Take this quiz again in a few weeks.
Your child is not quite ready to get on board that potty train, but you can begin talking more about it and getting ready. Give your child more practice following directions and give positive feedback for “big kid” behaviors.
Take a deep breath! It's time to start your potty training journey. Keep in mind: your toddler will have accidents—it’s part of the learning process. Just relax, stay consistent, be positive, and you’ll both do just fine!
Like so many parenting situations, there are very few clear-cut answers. If your child is in-between categories, you’ll just have to use your “mommy instinct.” You know your child best. You also know yourself and your patience level best. If you start, and it’s just not working, take a break and try again in a few weeks—your child will not be scarred for life.
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