Choosing a Camp: Fiction vs. Fact

By Eve Eifler

It’s time again to ponder that perennial question: “What will I do with my kids next summer?” From advice along the sidelines at little league to e-mails and advertisements, it’s not always easy to separate fact from fiction. To help you sort it all out, I’ve tackled four of the biggest myths that still persist.

Fiction: “Overnight camp is only for the rich.”

Fact: The truth is that there is a camp out there to fit every budget. And, if you plan ahead, you can take advantage of early enrollment discounts and financial aid. Applying early can mean a 20-50% discount off of camp tuition, based on need. Private camps tend to be more expensive, so if your budget is limited this year, contact your local county-run camps or agencies like the Campfire Boys and Girls, the Jewish Federation, Boys Scouts and Girl Scouts, the Jewish Community Center, and the Salvation Army. Lastly, inquire about shorter sessions and discounts for multiple children from one family.

Fiction: “Only I know what is best for my child.”

Fact: “Mother knows best?” Not always. It is tempting (especially if we are former campers) to re-create our own camp experiences for our children, but involving your child in the camp research may reveal some surprises. You may think your daughter wants to be at a camp that specializes in art and drama because that is what she enjoys, but maybe she wants to improve her tennis game this summer. Ask your child: do you want to build on your existing strengths and interests this summer or try something new? Be open to the unexpected!

Fiction: “If I send my child to camp with a friend, it will make her more comfortable.”

Fact: A friend can sometimes act as a barrier to your child’s making new friends. All too often, one of the campers has a difficult time. The other child then feels responsible for the friend, which can be extremely burdensome. In addition, your child may choose activities based upon his friends’ interests, rather than his own. It is important to weigh the comfort of going with a friend with the possible drawbacks. If going with a friend is the only way your child will try camp, it might be worth it. Just prepare your child with possible scenarios and provide him with some problem-solving strategies.

Fiction: “A 1-week session is the best way to ease into an overnight camp experience.”

Fact: One week barely gives kids time to find their way around a camp, much less feel the tinge of missing Mom and Dad (or the family dog). A two- to four-week introductory session allows children to be immersed in the daily routine of a new and safe place, build friendships that will carry over until the next summer, work through any homesick pangs that may arise, and feel the success of doing something totally on their own.

When the time comes to choose a camp, there are lots of questions to ask. Getting the facts will make it easier to find a good fit for your child. Once you do, the investment will provide you and your child with lifelong rewards. Happy camping!

Eve Eifler is an Executive Director for Tips on Trips and Camps, a free camp advisory service, helping families since 1971. For more tips and helpful materials, visit www.TipsonTripsandCamps.com.